Friday, September 28, 2007

September Website Updates

1) *All Alone*. - I am all alone in this big house, wearing My luscious corsetry & silk gloves, playing with My Stockings, and becoming aroused by the feel of My pinup outfit!.- 27 Images - 09/2007 - Photos by Chris Cali.



2) *Rubber Bath*. -Rubber Bathing, all alone. Watch Me scrub My body & soak in nice cool water... maybe I will just take off My Rubber Catsuit for you !.- 38 Images - 09/2007 - Photos by Chris Cali.



3) *Gangstar*. -If you like seeing Chicks with Guns & Chicks who smoke, then you will especially like this Gallery. Not only I'm wearing one of My Favorite PinStripe outfits, I know how to pose with My big ol' rifle. YUM..- 25 Images - 09/2007 - Photos by Chris Cali.



4) *EVENT PHOTOS*. - Photos of Xena in Action & Photos of Xena n Friends @ Fetish Parties.- 66 Images - 09/2007 - Photos by Fernando Castel.



5) *PERFORMANCE IMAGES*- PERFORMANCE photos @ Passive Arts Studios in Los Angeles, CA. This little princess gets what she deserves! - 20 Images - 09/2007 - Photos by Ms.Simone.



Credits: Ms.Simone @ Chicago-Mistress.Com
Fernando Castel @ MySpace.Com

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- Joining the Members Area........

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6) MISTRESSXENA.COM has been completely REVAMPED. NEW MEMBERS AREA has been added! What's inside the MEMBERS AREA?

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7) Some of My DVD's are on SALE ! Go HERE & VISIT MY STORE!.

8) I have a storefront where you can purchase a 2008 Calendar and My Art Books. Click HERE to Visit My Store Front.

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10) Next Fetish Party : TBA. Stay tuned to Our Site @ BondageNightChicago.Com.

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Current Thoughts of the day - absolutely miserable

My BF seen one of My DVD's yesterday, laying by My PC. He decided to put it on (while I wasn't home). The DVD title is 'Fist that Slut'. Yes, he knows I've fisted in the past & what not. So after he watches the DVD, he contacts Me. Of course, I could sense in the tone of his voice that something is wrong. "What's Wrong", I say. "Nothing @ all", he states. Then I get home & I'm being called "Disgusting" for doing what I've done in the film?

I don't need that shit. I'm not disgusting. Fisting isn't disgusting (in My book). So we get into a big argument match, about how 'disgusting I am'. Enough about fisting, let Me ask this..

Do you call this Jealousy....

When your man/woman is extremely upset because you 'touch' other people?
When your man/woman has video-shoots with others, and is bothered by it?

I think he's jealous, and states that 'I'm not safe'.

I am good @ what I do. I've worked hard to be where I'm @ today. I am happy with My line of work (and get paid very well). I will not change for anybody. Then he states, "Why don't we just break-up, since you are happy with what I do & I'm not?" Then he tells Me that he isn't forcing Me to quit... and gives Me the guilt trip (a quote like, "Oh, I won't marry a Dominatrix!").

he makes it sound as if I will be doing this forever (which I'm not). Of course I want to be with this man.... this man who makes Me happy. This man who listens to Me. This man who has a good heart. But why should I be with him, if he doesn't like what I do?

I've heard so many other cases where My FemDomme friends had to break-up with their boyfriends, because they didn't approve with what they do. Good for them. But I don't want to break up with this tough-cookie. We are right for each other.

Myself = Absolutely Confused. Emotionally Stressed. Headache Galore.

My ears are open to your thoughts !

Monday, September 24, 2007

Current Thoughts of the Day

- Boiling outside, indeed. It's ONLY 90degrees.

- Had a bizarre dream.... I was a kid again. Dream took place in 1982, the year I was born. Everything around Me (in Chicago) was different. Everyone looked totally 80s (big hair, 80s attire, 80s music galore). Man, if there was a device to shoot you to your past & back to the present... somewhat reminds Me of 'Back to the Future'.

- Ok, why would someone get an IPOD NANO? The screen seems too small, first of all. And second of all, it's $200. That money can be spent on bills, not on some tiny device. What is Apple going to invent next ? A vibrating IPOD, just for your clit ? Beats Me.

- PeeWee Herman is on HBO. My hero. horray ! Just kidding.

- Bears were blown away by the fricken Cowboys. Cubs tickets are already sold out. Yuppies are HOUNDS for them Cubbies. Fuck em'. Hope they LOSE !

- Marine work-outs are so much harder, yet so much better. But for the life of Me, I can't do Chin-Ups. *FUCK*

- SUPERBAD is absolutely HYSTERICAL. Go see it. Moral of the movie.... "Have to get LOTS of liquor to get into the chicky's pants" (that's My opinion).



- Photo of the Day... "I Wear Condoms" (click 2 enlargen)



XoXo,

*MX



Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Current Thoughts of the Day (Sept 18th)

- Dungeon party on Saturday got mighty roudy. Nudity in public clubs in Chicago is a MUST (yeah, that will really happen. The mayor would shut us out in an instant) . As of what goes on @ Our dungeon parties is strictly private. You'd have to attend a party 2 c what happens. Next party is the 3rd Saturday in October. I'll post the party info in My blog (when the party date is near).

- Yesterday was a nightmare. Got a new cell-phone, then I was looking for My car. of COURSE it got towed. Cab driver got Us lost (told him to take Me to the auto pound, and wound up paying him almost $10 for getting us lost . prick). Let's see, $160 fee to get My car out of the pound... PLUS a $50 ticket (for the hell of it). I love this fucking city.

- Yesterday was Mike & I's 6 month Anniversary. *evil grins*

- Just updated My pics on Model Mayhem. Link is Right Here.

- What's with this O.J. staying in jail for 30yrs. for stealing his sports memorabilia? Or did I hear wrong? lol

- What am I going to be this yr. for halloween? I was thinking about mike being a doctor... and I can be a nurse. Or 2 zombies. Halloween season is My fave time of the year. So much madness! Horray !

- It's slowly getting to My boyfriend, as to what I do. He is becoming more & more upset, about the fact that I play with other men for a living. That's I'm a Pro-Dominatrix. That I've been doing this Professionally for over 6 yrs. That I LOVE what I do. That I won't just change LIKE THAT ! I won't be doing this forever. He says that he isn't jealous about this. He just doesn't like it. Then he makes Me feel guilty about playing with other people, how UNSAFE I am. How I can catch a Disease. When I work all the time (session), It GETS to him (I sense it, I feel it, his behavior changes). We plan on making a Family, and I agree on this committment... quitting Pro-Domming when I'm ready for that big change in My life. He's right. I can't see Myself sessioning, if I were Preggie.. or if I have kids.... mike had knew what I do for a living (b4 We even hooked up).... @ first, he said he was 'cool' with it. But now (obviously), he isn't. he's encouraging Me to go back to school, to get My bachelor's degree (which is definitely a smart manuever). Right now, I'm having loads of fun & don't feel like I should change.... YET !

- Dommes, need a website? Then Go Here and read the info.

- Drooling, because I stumbled upon these boots:
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They're located on this Super Sexy Site.

- Getting rid of Rubber Attire, that I don't really wear anymore. Purple Catsuit, Blue Dress, Semi Transparent Outfit, etc. I'm selling the items for a very good price. Want to see photos? And receive more info? then write Me right HERE.

- Photo of the day (I WILL CUT YOU)



*MX




Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Current Thoughts of the Day - Sept 12th

- New VacBed @ The Studio (Dungeon)... and it's BLACK.. It was made by Anton (Antons-stl.Com)..... and a pretty new Blue PVC Body-Suit (Can be used as a Straight-Jacket). So fricken happy, because the VacBed looks mighty DELICIOUS !

- Today, I woke up feeling sad, for no apparent reason. The day is getting better though.

- No, I'm not 'wierd' nor am I a 'freak' , just because I'm into BDSM/Fetish. I'm a Kinky Bitch, whom is good @ what She does. Treat Me like a human, not like a 'germ'... who touches other people (spanking, face-slapping, hair-pulling, etc.).

- They're blaming the mother, for the disappearance of little Madeleine. The blonde kid who disappeared. So fricken adorable, who would kill the kid? The parents? That doesn't make sense.... especially when they go to The Pope & plea to help the nation find their kid. It disgusts Me, that good & loving parents can just kill their beautiful kid. Do you think the parents killed the kid? The ma might have been framed. Who knows!

- Had a dream that I was into Burlesque Dancing & had to open for Dita Von Teese. So in the dream, I was 'stripping' & the audience loved it. Then all of a sudden, I couldn't remember what came next in the act... and decided to just 'pause' on-stage. Sounds like a Bad case of stage-fright ! lol. Why would I just have a dream about dancing?

- Was watching NBC's Today (just 30mins. ago)... and the ladies interviewed a Woman whom had 6tuplets (who lives in Lake Havasu, Arizona). The babies were so fricken adorable. But DAMN, 6 kids? YIKES ! They're greatful to have a team of helpers, for the babies.

- Working out today was a pain. I usually work out in the afternoon, but My body wasn't used to working out in the morning today.

- Quote Today : " Bitch, don't hate! "

Pic of the Day (thx bob. such a perv):

Photos Gallery - PicTiger

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Current Thoughts of the Day - Sept 11th

- Today is the Anniversary of the NYC Tragedy in 01'. WOW, it's been 6yrs. already? Cannot believe it's been 6 years already. Where did time go. I remember reading this issue of Time Magazine.. . and inside the magazine, I remember an image (which I will never forget). The image was a man & a woman falling from the building & holding hands. I couldn't fricken believe that so many graphic images of the tragedy were published. On the Time Magazine website, I guess you can purchase that issue (Special Edition: Sept. 11).

- Promotion is always a fun job (currently promoting the next Dungeon Party, which is on Sept 15th). Wanna cum? Then EMAIL ME ON MYSPACE!.

- Speaking of dungeon-parties.....I find it funny how voyeurs watch scenes & they discreetly TRY to play with themselves. I've witnessed it. They get the boot.... especially if these are ppl who I don't know. I've received numerous emails stating, "What goes on @ Dungeon Parties?". Well...
People Dress Up (but it's not a requirement. Eye-Candy is always great), Voyeurs watch (which is ok), Couples & Groups engage in BDSM acts (well, that's what a dungeon is for), Individuals tend to bring their own Toys (since there is already LOTS of equipment to use @ the Dungeon), etc. Keeping the environment / play-space is very important. I started attending Private Dungeon Parties @ the age of 19.... to Me, I felt like 'a kid in a candy-store'. Or shall I put it THIS way, "a perv in a real Dungeon'. That sounds better. Couples playing (age range was 20s-50s, about), Nudity everywhere, etc. It was heaven to Me (thanks papi-chulo, for taking Me to the dungeon parties).

- Chicago mobsters have been found guilty (5 convicted guilty). GOOD! Story On Fox. It's funny how they were compared to T.V. Mobsters in this SunTimes Article.

- Why does My cat cry, as if she was a newborn baby? I mean, it SOUNDS like a newborn. It's scary, actually.
And My other cat was meowing in her sleep. Animal nightmares. AHHH.

- Exercising outside today will be a relief (I hate working out, when it's 80 degrees out). I could feel 'Fall' in the air.

- I think I want to get a Canon Video-Camcoarder from Tiger Direct. Canon is the BEST !

- There's a sexual predator in Chicago, who has a Myspace page. AHHHH.
People report his f*cking ass....his page gets taken down... then he creates a new page. This prick isn't even important, I just find it hilarious how pathetic predators try & hook up with ppl on Myspace... HEY, as long as their not UNDERAGE !

- What's this 'phish' shit? "Oh, My page was Phished... Change your password now". It's becoming a nuisance.

- "No, I don't do massages."
Here boys.... here's some helpful definitions to read (lol)...

Definition of a Domme.
Definition of a Masseuse.
Now compare the 2... VERY GOOD !

Foto of the Day (thanx bob)



*MX

Private Dungeon Party in Chicago - Sept15th

NEXT PARTY ::: SEPTEMBER 15th (SATURDAY)

IN ORDER TO ATTEND THIS PRIVATE DUNGEON PARTY, Y/you MUST RSVP WITH US !! RSVP BEFORE SEPTEMBER 15th.

BondageNightChicago.com invites you to a night of
Debauchery at the Continuum
with
Mistress Cleo and Mistress Xena


Shibari by Miss Jaded



and


Shibari by DVNT Dom


Atmosphere by Dj Peter Propaganda




We are very please to be working with Mistress Cleo and the the Continuum a Private Dungeon Space were your most depraved fantasies can come true.


When : September 15th 2007
Time: 11pm til ???
Price $15.00 for Everyone
Age: Strictly 21+. Bring a Proper I.D.
Cameras: Do to the Nature of a private dungeon party, absolutely no cameras will be allowed, anyone who brings one will be asked to leave.

Toys: Bring Y/your OWN TOYS (the dungeon is Fully Equipped with Bondage Furniture)

This is a Private Party, so please RSVP and let Us know that Y/you are coming and how many guests Y/you will be bringing

Also all RSVPs will be kept private.

PLEASE CLICK HERE TO RSVP

More info will be sent to those who RSVP!

Our 1st Dungeon Party We held @ The Continuum was a hit! LITERALLY ! I had so much fun. We ALL had a great time. Kinksters, make it happen again ! See Y/you all soon !

Saturday, September 8, 2007

Current Thoughts of the Day (Sept8th)

- Yesterday nite, We went 2 THE SPOT (goth/industrial nite was taking place). It was really good. THE SPOT is a way-2-small bar, in My opinion. The 2nd Room was industrial with a teeny-tiny dance floor. We made the best of it, and danced. @ the end of the nite = EXHAUSTED.

- I was thinking... "It would be SUPER good to see these bands cum to Chicago: *Throbbing Gristle*, *Cabaret Voltaire*, Bow Wow Wow, altered images, Alien Sex Fiend, Death in June (might cause another controversy, like last time they came 2 Chicago), DAF, Sex Gang Children and Virgin Prunes. What happened to everyone? Did everybody disappear? And if these bands are still around, why ONLY PLAY in Europe.

- Nice Saturday, to go out Shopping & Walking.

- I seen this pay-per-view for 'THE BEAN'. http://bean.com. MOST informercials are 'fake'. But I think this one is actually 'for-real'. And it's suppose to help with back-pains. I don't know if I should get it er not.

- When We got home yesterday nite (actually, this morning), there were 2 stray cats outside. OF COURSE I had to give them each a can of wet-food. I'm FOR CERTAIN that the 2 pussies will be outside Our place TONITE. Shit, I don't blame them. 2 adorable cats (probably covered in ticks & probably has rabies). But one was a big black cat (BEAUTIFUL). I want ' it '.

- Interesting article on Chicago Nightlife, in NewCity. Read it .

- Ozzy & Rob Zombie r cumming 2 Chicago in December 2007. Speaking of Rob Zombie, I heard his new 'Halloween' movie is VERY VERY GOOD! What's your opinion?

- 'Do you do Massages', someone asked Me over the phone this morning. 'A Dominatrix is opposite than a Maseusse. Stay home & masturbate, if you really need a rubbin', is what I've stated. F*ckin' little bitches !

- Currently hooked on Italo Disco. What are your thoughts. Song:
Patrick Cowley - Menergy (you'll need to turn up the volume)



- Pic of the day - Myself & the Boyfriend (his hair is MUCH shorter now). This was taken on St.Patty's day @ Our Fetish nite in Chicago. That's the 1st nite that mike & I hooked up. :)

Friday, September 7, 2007

New Webcam Clips, filmed 2day

BubbleGum Girl:



Smoking Fetish (2 clips)



Current Thoughts of the Day (Sept7th)

- Oh boy, the 6th year anniversary of Sept11th is coming up. WOW, it's been 6 years already? Where did the time go? And bin laden recorded something recently (now he has a black beard. he's one slick prick, hiding out in pakistan).

- Why does My cat love nibbling on My long black hair (when I'm asleep)? When I wake up, what do I feel? Her sharp teeth (probably with her drool) in My hair. EEWW.

- My BF is going to a wedding this sunday, and I wasn't invited. Whatever. I don't know the ppl anyway.

- It was so fricken beautiful when I woke up. Rain & MORE Rain. Tried NOT to splash ppl, while they waited @ the bus-stop (when I was driving like a mad-Woman).

- A call I received earlier, "Do you offer any type of 'physical-services'? What do you mean, I stated.. . "Footjobs/Handjobs", he states. *CLICK*. My feet are precious. Why would I want to use My beautiful feet on a disgusting cock? It crosses My line anyway. And why would I want to watch you cum anyway. Don't have My permission to cum. Beat off when you get home from a session.

- Reality Shows are getting pretty ridiculous. 'The Biggest Loser', 'Last Comic Standing', 'Age of Love', ETC. It's money-schemes, obviously. Hey , what happened with Flava Flav & the chick that won his 'love' ? Did she disappear already? GOD, who would want to wake up every morning to look @ that creepo (and ESPECIALLY those gold-ugly-teeth)?

- Hunting down a good treadmill. Everytime I run on pavement, My thighs hurt (which is a good thing). Treadmills are so much easier.

- Seeking a perfect female-slave in Chicago (or in the Chicagoland area). Perfect? What's perfect? There's NO SUCH THING as perfect.



Pic of the Day:



Awww, so cute !

*MX

Thursday, September 6, 2007

Current Thoughts of the Day - Sept 6th

- Had to take the ' L ' today, to go to the Loop. I never take the ' L ' . Oh, I went alone also. See, why is it that if a Female travels alone, she will get 'hit on'? Or a man will start talkin' to her (asking for the telephone number, or what not....THEN the dude will stare her down)? But if the chick is with a man, no OTHER man will go up to her. Yes, they'll look.... but won't go up to her. That's what had happened in My case. A simple 'fuck-off' to the dude usually does the trick (for the dude to back the f*ck off). Or maybe I should wear a ring (fake wedding ring), so the 'dude on the street' can get the hint.

- I turned on the news yesterday... and the #1 story was about a man getting murdered. And who murdered him ? Someone I know. YIKES ! Bad Bad Bad Boy !

- Got My Logitech Webcam Up & Ready 2 go. Wanna set up a Webcam show with Me? Then Go to THIS website, for more info. And NO, you cannot see Me using the bathroom.... or any sexy-time action. Just you and I ! Maybe I'll place My cat in the webcam too. lol.

- My storefront is up & running. I have MORE goodies to sell, very soon!

- Are You a Domme? Would you like a free website? Well, The Contact Info is right here.

- What a good friend told Me : "There is a law that says when you whip people you're supposed to give them the whip because it might have there blood on it and you can't use it on other people. It's like tattoo needles you can only use them on one person." I will certainly have to look into this. Better to do so now, than to be sorry in the long run. But HELL, Why do I have to give My whips to a slave/subbie? SHIT, My whips are fricken expensive!

- We're finally going to get 'The Dish' . What's your thoughts on 'The Dish' ? Good or bad ? I never really cared for getting satellite T.V.

- Backed-up on answering Myspace emails. So much stuff is goin' on... it's unreal. Don't think I hate you for not getting back with you. Just busy working on websites & answering emails from other acct's.

- Got an email yesterday saying, 'Will you Marry Me?' This response from someone I've never talked to b4. My response: F*CK OFF !

PHOTO OF THE DAY (mmm. rubber hoods !)
Foto by: F*ckin' Gerry @ EyeonFetish.
Click on the pic, to lead you to My website...


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2) Fetish Calendar

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4) Pin-Up Book (photo book)

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MORE products on its way !
XoXo,
*MX

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Current Thoughts for the Day - Sept 5th

- I've been working on My Store. It's Up: You've GOT TO SEE IT !

- In the process of creating something awesome. What is it ? Can't say. But I've been working on this project all morning.

- I have MORE solo-video-clips waiting for Me. woohoo. Today (LATER), I'm thinking about setting up My Webcam for Chatting. MIGHT try to set up My LIVE CAM STORE. MORE INFO ON ONE OF MY WEBSITES.

- Yesterday night, I added 25 free pics to My Website....Go HERE, UNDER 'FREE PICS'.

- I hate death-metal....but some song that My bf played 2day was actually not-bad.

- Have a new home for BLOGGING: http://mistressxenachicago.blogspot.com

- DEFAULT pic by Steve Lake. It's a STILL , while SHOOTING the Movie, "MERCY". Wanna buy "MERCY", for $29.99 PLUS S&H??? Then Contact Me @ MistressXena_Chicago@Yahoo.Com

- I'm getting fed-up with seeing My photos on other ppl's pages. Here's an Example... but this person (creepy the masturbating clown) asked 4 permission. Should you ? SURE !

- Still need to see 'Mr.Bean' in the theatre. Was it funny? Was it? What a little dweeb !

- I'm sick of NEO & EXIT in Chicago. Same ol' schtuff. Same ol' Same ol'.
I DO miss 80s nite @ NEO (haven't been in a few months), I must admit that.
New club in Chicago, with ALL TYPES of DJ's and ALL TYPES of Musica? I'm 100% for it !

FOTO OF THE DAY:


By: Jason Ernst.

*MX





Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Current Thoughts of the day (Sept4th)

- Selling My products (calendar & book)... RIGHT SMACKIN' HERE! Spread the word !!

- We are NOT going to have a Fetish Party @ the Kinetic Playground this Month (on the 2nd Saturday of September). The night has already been booked. *sighs*. Stay tuned to this website for the NEXT party (I'll announce it on the Message Boards anyway, but it's good to stay tuned):::BondageNightChicago.Com.

- Back to school for 400,000 kiddies. ha ha. When I was a young fart, I always got 'the jitters' (a day b4 school). Those were the days.

- This 90s House Music CD from Lady Maria is AWESOME! I used to be hooked on this s*it. Haven't heard this stuff in 4ever.

- Some prick over the phone was bitched-out yesterday by Me. What happened? I had asked what his interests are.... and he stated his interests in a 'Dominating-Tone-Of-Voice' (trying to top from the bottom).... *CLICK*. so he sent Me 2 messages after that, apologizing how the way he sounded. NO PRICK IS DOMINANT TOWARDS ME OVER THE PHONE. I refuse to have 'this prick' serve Me (or ANY 'Dominant male' serving Me).

- boys.... who knows how to make 468 x 60 FLASHY banners? If that's you, please write Me (Contact Me on Myspace.

- Thighs are killing Me (only ran 2miles yesterday, under the hot hot sun). Can't do it 2day. No need 4 Me to collapse.

- Our House Party on Saturday was excellent. And My home wasn't too messy. ONLY close-friends were invited. Whoever didn't make it? We plan on having FUTURE-PARTIES. Whoever DID make it... THANKS MUCH FOR CUMMING. Hope ya'll have a good time.

- Tweaking / Doing Maintenance on 3 websites today. woohoo. fun fun.

- Shopping for a car online (probably later on, when I get a chance).
Scion's are rad. Old School Mustangs are even MORE rad. Something used (with very LOW milage) would rock. Fast cars ARE A MUST !

- Hmmm, where do I see Myself in a year or two?

- Foto of the day: (with Floor and I in L.A. during DomCon L.A.). Pic by Ms.Simone.. .title : TRAMPLING IS SO MUCH FUN !

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The REST of this photo set is found in My MEMBERS AREA. Where is that Found? On MistressXena.Com.


*MX