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December 2011 Events @ The Studio (Chicago)
Here is a list of the parties (last parties of 2011)....................
FRIDAY, DEC 2 (NUIT DES LIBERTINES)
Nuit Des Libertines Presents: Tickle Mania
Tickle games will be held during the party. For instance:
- Battle of the Sexes, to see who can take being tickled the most.
- Blindfolding a Ticklee & he or she will guess who is tickling them.
-The Ticklee is told a secret, and then is Tickled until the secret is released from him or her.
-Tickling contest to show off your tickle skills, or your ability to withstand the torture. Winner gets a gag prize.
Come on out, for a good laugh, or a good cry!
Come participate in brutal tickling games, with your Ticklers:
Mistress Xena & Lady Maria
-Where: The Studio - Chicago
-When: Dec 2nd, 2011
-Starts at 10pm. Ends at 3am.
-Cost: $10 for Women, $20 for men
-Attire: Fetish or Casual
-BYOB
-Bring your toys
RSVP: nuitdeslibertines@yahoo.com (include your full name in the RSVP).
Website: http://libertineschicago.com
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SATURDAY, DEC 3 (Club FEM)
Chicago's ONLY female dominant/male submissive focused group.
Come play in an environment tailored our unique energy.
Our next gathering is Saturday, December 3rd, 2011
time: 09:00 PM to 01:00 AM
where: The Studio Chicago
address: Given to confirmed participants
As is tradition at our parties, please bring a dish to share.Since it is turning colder, a warm dish or drink to share would be nice. As it is the Holiday season, there will be a tree decorating ladies with slave mk_cb. Please feel free to bring an ornament or other item to pin on the tree. Also, boys, now is the time to spoil your ladies!
You MUST confirm via email to Ms Simone at her email address -- chicagomistress@gmail.com
Only those who have RSVP'd in this manner will be on the guest list. DO NOT call her business number seeking info or directions, nor email her web email.
RSVP's sent after noon on party date will not be replied to. By then, we are in party prep mode.Please no phone calls or texts for the address.
Males must be presented in one of these ways: nude, feminized or revealing fetish gear. No male will be fully clothed at CCF functions.
ANYONE FOUND NOT TO BE IN COMPLIANCE WILL BE ASKED TO EITHER REMEDY IT IMMEDIATELY OR LEAVE.
Switches are welcome to come and explore but they must be in the proper role at all times during our party.
Play is negotiated between parties.
For new attendees, I suggest you review the past few discussions on party behavior.
This is a lifestyle function
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SATURDAY, DEC 9 (BLACK BEAT MUNCH)
Black Beat Chicago and Kinky Diners have decided to join forces in December for some Food, Fellowship and Fun! $10 covers the use of the space and please bring a dish to share! 7:30pm-1am.
You can show off your cooking skills or if you’re more like me the wing bar at Jewel works fine too smile
Black Beat is a gathering of like minded folks who embrace the family feel that's fostered by the larger Black BEAT Family. A place to share, learn and grow in a trusting and friendly environment. A place where respect is expected and good times are mandatory!
•We are a pan-sexual, non-exclusive group!
Who’s Invited:
*Kinky folks who are at least 21 years of age
*Kinky and curious folks of all nationalities and ethnicities are welcome
*If you have never been to one of our munches or play parties and have no idea where it is, PLEASE RSVP here and send an email to TakeMeAsIAm(fetlife) or lashdomme@yahoo.com before midnight, Friday , December 9th, to get the address.
Where is it:
*The Studio Chicago is about 10 minutes from downtown Chicago.
*This location is accessible via public transportation and has parking in the back of the building.
Why you should come:
*Because it's fun!
*We're always happy to see new faces and most of us don't bite without prior permission
*Maybe you want to catch up with friends and talk about all the kinky s!@# you've been up to
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SATURDAY, DEC 10 (DUNGEONS & DRAGONS IN THE DUNGEON)
Yes it's easy to come out of kinky closet, but how about the gamer closet?
Do hot chicks and gaming mix? Now they do! Game with a hot Dominatrix! We will have both DMs and players that are kinky and hot, fair and mean all at once.
We will have 3 different Pathfinder D&D 4 hour events, 1 Shadowrun 4 hour event and 1 Call of Cthulhu 4 hour event. There will also be an interactive LARP with kinky elements for kinky gamers to explore during the last slot. Event registration will open on November 1st, 2011 (first come, first served).
There may be nudity at this event. We will have a natural 20 girl that will take off one article of clothing for every natural 20 rolled and verified by a female at the table. We will also have a Cleric of Calistria (CGJB) who can remove one hit point of damage for every hit you take with her flogger.
This event is for 18+ years of age only with ID, there may be nudity and there will be adult themes. There are 3 slots and 5 tables available. Slot 1: 9am to 1pm, Slot 2: 1:30pm to 5:30pm, Slot 3: 6pm to 10pm. $20 in advance or $30 at the door. That covers your entrance and all fees for gaming. There will be pizza, soda and a gaming vendor available for your convenience as well.
I am looking for female volunteers to DM, Cleric of Calistria and Natural 20 girl. I am also looking for 1 great vendor.
Contact me at chicago.ghost@gmail.com or call my office at Weird Chicago Tours at 773-360-9171.
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SUNDAY, DEC 11 (CHICAGO ROUGH BODY PLAY)
Two of the most popular topics in kink in Chicago: rough body play, and rope. Like chocolate & peanut butter, dogs & pickup trucks, and first dates & lube, the two should go together famously. I'm sure they often do, but how often have you seen a rope top do an amazing rigging only to start hitting like a sissy maid in a butch bar?
So this month, we're going to do... Rope and RBP.
Come to Rough Crowd for an afternoon of pervy delight and cordial violence. And learning some good stuff about more about skin torture.
Fetlife Event Page: https://fetlife.com/events/80085/v1
Looking forward to seeing a bunch of you then!
E-Mail Roughinamorato to RSVP: http://fetlife.com/users/13913
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FRIDAY, DEC 16 (CLASSES/PLAY PARTY)
CLASSES..........
Class description will be announced shortly.
Guest Presenter : Lady Maria (http://www.goddessladymaria.com)
Classes: 8pm-9pm.
Play Party: 9pm-12am.
$10 admission.
Bring your own toys.
21+ to enter.
Parking: Free parking on the street, or $4 behind the Studio's space.
RSVP : mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com
Your RSVP's shall include your full name.
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SATURDAY, DEC 17 (VISCOUNT ZAPPULA'S 2ND ANNUAL YULETIDE BALL)
Salutations!
You are cordially invited to the Viscount Zappula's 2nd Annual Yuletide Ball. By Harry we are happy to make your acquaintance and have you attend!
This is a Steampunk BDSM event, strict Steampunk Dress code is required.
We will have an Absinthe Bar, our infamous Hysteria relief station run by the Viscountess, a Hall of Wonders and lots of extreme electric play.
The event will occur on Saturday, December 17th from 9pm to 2am, the cost is $20 per person. The event is at The Studio, you will get the address when you RSVP for the event. RSVP at chicago.ghost@gmail.com
Warmest Regards, The Viscount Zappula
Seasons Beatings,
-The Studio
http://thestudiochicago.com
FRIDAY, DEC 2 (NUIT DES LIBERTINES)
Nuit Des Libertines Presents: Tickle Mania
Tickle games will be held during the party. For instance:
- Battle of the Sexes, to see who can take being tickled the most.
- Blindfolding a Ticklee & he or she will guess who is tickling them.
-The Ticklee is told a secret, and then is Tickled until the secret is released from him or her.
-Tickling contest to show off your tickle skills, or your ability to withstand the torture. Winner gets a gag prize.
Come on out, for a good laugh, or a good cry!
Come participate in brutal tickling games, with your Ticklers:
Mistress Xena & Lady Maria
-Where: The Studio - Chicago
-When: Dec 2nd, 2011
-Starts at 10pm. Ends at 3am.
-Cost: $10 for Women, $20 for men
-Attire: Fetish or Casual
-BYOB
-Bring your toys
RSVP: nuitdeslibertines@yahoo.com (include your full name in the RSVP).
Website: http://libertineschicago.com
=================================================
SATURDAY, DEC 3 (Club FEM)
Chicago's ONLY female dominant/male submissive focused group.
Come play in an environment tailored our unique energy.
Our next gathering is Saturday, December 3rd, 2011
time: 09:00 PM to 01:00 AM
where: The Studio Chicago
address: Given to confirmed participants
As is tradition at our parties, please bring a dish to share.Since it is turning colder, a warm dish or drink to share would be nice. As it is the Holiday season, there will be a tree decorating ladies with slave mk_cb. Please feel free to bring an ornament or other item to pin on the tree. Also, boys, now is the time to spoil your ladies!
You MUST confirm via email to Ms Simone at her email address -- chicagomistress@gmail.com
Only those who have RSVP'd in this manner will be on the guest list. DO NOT call her business number seeking info or directions, nor email her web email.
RSVP's sent after noon on party date will not be replied to. By then, we are in party prep mode.Please no phone calls or texts for the address.
Males must be presented in one of these ways: nude, feminized or revealing fetish gear. No male will be fully clothed at CCF functions.
ANYONE FOUND NOT TO BE IN COMPLIANCE WILL BE ASKED TO EITHER REMEDY IT IMMEDIATELY OR LEAVE.
Switches are welcome to come and explore but they must be in the proper role at all times during our party.
Play is negotiated between parties.
For new attendees, I suggest you review the past few discussions on party behavior.
This is a lifestyle function
===============================================
SATURDAY, DEC 9 (BLACK BEAT MUNCH)
Black Beat Chicago and Kinky Diners have decided to join forces in December for some Food, Fellowship and Fun! $10 covers the use of the space and please bring a dish to share! 7:30pm-1am.
You can show off your cooking skills or if you’re more like me the wing bar at Jewel works fine too smile
Black Beat is a gathering of like minded folks who embrace the family feel that's fostered by the larger Black BEAT Family. A place to share, learn and grow in a trusting and friendly environment. A place where respect is expected and good times are mandatory!
•We are a pan-sexual, non-exclusive group!
Who’s Invited:
*Kinky folks who are at least 21 years of age
*Kinky and curious folks of all nationalities and ethnicities are welcome
*If you have never been to one of our munches or play parties and have no idea where it is, PLEASE RSVP here and send an email to TakeMeAsIAm(fetlife) or lashdomme@yahoo.com before midnight, Friday , December 9th, to get the address.
Where is it:
*The Studio Chicago is about 10 minutes from downtown Chicago.
*This location is accessible via public transportation and has parking in the back of the building.
Why you should come:
*Because it's fun!
*We're always happy to see new faces and most of us don't bite without prior permission
*Maybe you want to catch up with friends and talk about all the kinky s!@# you've been up to
=================================================
SATURDAY, DEC 10 (DUNGEONS & DRAGONS IN THE DUNGEON)
Yes it's easy to come out of kinky closet, but how about the gamer closet?
Do hot chicks and gaming mix? Now they do! Game with a hot Dominatrix! We will have both DMs and players that are kinky and hot, fair and mean all at once.
We will have 3 different Pathfinder D&D 4 hour events, 1 Shadowrun 4 hour event and 1 Call of Cthulhu 4 hour event. There will also be an interactive LARP with kinky elements for kinky gamers to explore during the last slot. Event registration will open on November 1st, 2011 (first come, first served).
There may be nudity at this event. We will have a natural 20 girl that will take off one article of clothing for every natural 20 rolled and verified by a female at the table. We will also have a Cleric of Calistria (CGJB) who can remove one hit point of damage for every hit you take with her flogger.
This event is for 18+ years of age only with ID, there may be nudity and there will be adult themes. There are 3 slots and 5 tables available. Slot 1: 9am to 1pm, Slot 2: 1:30pm to 5:30pm, Slot 3: 6pm to 10pm. $20 in advance or $30 at the door. That covers your entrance and all fees for gaming. There will be pizza, soda and a gaming vendor available for your convenience as well.
I am looking for female volunteers to DM, Cleric of Calistria and Natural 20 girl. I am also looking for 1 great vendor.
Contact me at chicago.ghost@gmail.com or call my office at Weird Chicago Tours at 773-360-9171.
==================================================
SUNDAY, DEC 11 (CHICAGO ROUGH BODY PLAY)
Two of the most popular topics in kink in Chicago: rough body play, and rope. Like chocolate & peanut butter, dogs & pickup trucks, and first dates & lube, the two should go together famously. I'm sure they often do, but how often have you seen a rope top do an amazing rigging only to start hitting like a sissy maid in a butch bar?
So this month, we're going to do... Rope and RBP.
Come to Rough Crowd for an afternoon of pervy delight and cordial violence. And learning some good stuff about more about skin torture.
Fetlife Event Page: https://fetlife.com/events/80085/v1
Looking forward to seeing a bunch of you then!
E-Mail Roughinamorato to RSVP: http://fetlife.com/users/13913
==================================================
FRIDAY, DEC 16 (CLASSES/PLAY PARTY)
CLASSES..........
Class description will be announced shortly.
Guest Presenter : Lady Maria (http://www.goddessladymaria.com)
Classes: 8pm-9pm.
Play Party: 9pm-12am.
$10 admission.
Bring your own toys.
21+ to enter.
Parking: Free parking on the street, or $4 behind the Studio's space.
RSVP : mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com
Your RSVP's shall include your full name.
===================================================
SATURDAY, DEC 17 (VISCOUNT ZAPPULA'S 2ND ANNUAL YULETIDE BALL)
Salutations!
You are cordially invited to the Viscount Zappula's 2nd Annual Yuletide Ball. By Harry we are happy to make your acquaintance and have you attend!
This is a Steampunk BDSM event, strict Steampunk Dress code is required.
We will have an Absinthe Bar, our infamous Hysteria relief station run by the Viscountess, a Hall of Wonders and lots of extreme electric play.
The event will occur on Saturday, December 17th from 9pm to 2am, the cost is $20 per person. The event is at The Studio, you will get the address when you RSVP for the event. RSVP at chicago.ghost@gmail.com
Warmest Regards, The Viscount Zappula
Seasons Beatings,
-The Studio
http://thestudiochicago.com
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Tickle Mania in Chicago - Friday, Dec 2
Nuit Des Libertines Presents: "Tickle Mania"
Come participate in brutal tickling games, with your Ticklers:
Lady Maria & Mistress Xena
Tickle games will be held during the party. For instance:
- Battle of the Sexes, to see who can take being tickled the most.
- Blindfolding a Ticklee & he or she will guess who is tickling them.
-The Ticklee is told a secret, and then is Tickled until the secret is released from him or her.
-Tickling contest to show off your tickle skills, or your ability to withstand the torture. Winner gets a gag prize.
Come on out, for a good laugh, or a good cry!
-Where: The Studio - Chicago
-When: Friday, Dec 2nd, 2011
-Starts at 10pm. Ends at 3am.
-Cost: $10 for Women, $20 for men
-Attire: Fetish or Casual
-BYOB
-Bring your toys
RSVP: nuitdeslibertines@yahoo.com (include your full name in the RSVP).
Main Site: http://libertineschicago.com
The Studio: http://thestudiochicago.com
~Indulge your Fantasies~
Come participate in brutal tickling games, with your Ticklers:
Lady Maria & Mistress Xena
Tickle games will be held during the party. For instance:
- Battle of the Sexes, to see who can take being tickled the most.
- Blindfolding a Ticklee & he or she will guess who is tickling them.
-The Ticklee is told a secret, and then is Tickled until the secret is released from him or her.
-Tickling contest to show off your tickle skills, or your ability to withstand the torture. Winner gets a gag prize.
Come on out, for a good laugh, or a good cry!
-Where: The Studio - Chicago
-When: Friday, Dec 2nd, 2011
-Starts at 10pm. Ends at 3am.
-Cost: $10 for Women, $20 for men
-Attire: Fetish or Casual
-BYOB
-Bring your toys
RSVP: nuitdeslibertines@yahoo.com (include your full name in the RSVP).
Main Site: http://libertineschicago.com
The Studio: http://thestudiochicago.com
~Indulge your Fantasies~
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Sunday, November 6, 2011
OLD Interview in Punk Globe Magazine
Interview by Steve DIY (from the U.K.). http://punkglobe.com
I bumped into Mistress Xena on the net - GothChix.Com had pointed her in my direction and when I checked out what she was about I fired some questions off to her about her life style. Happy to be interviewed here's what Mistress Xena had to say:
Punk Globe: First off can you introduce yourself to the world of Rock N Roll? Yes. You may call Me Xena, Mistress Xena, Goddess Xena (and trust Me, I'm NO Princess).
Xena: I was born and raised in Chicago, IL. And I'm still living in this fucking cold city. I'm in My 20s, 1/2 Irish and 1/2 Middle Eastern. Weird Combination, huh? Ahh, we're all a bunch of wierdos anyway. Let's see...... Words that best describe Me (What Am I?): Dominant, Sadist, Fetishist, Rubberist, EVIL, Wicked, Seductive, Erotic, Perverted, Kinky and Witty.
Punk Globe: How did you get into the world of BDSM? At what age did you get a feel for it?
Xena: I became experimental, starting at age 15. I was a Voyeur and an Exhibitionist (and still am). I thank the lovely female on My block (at the time), for teaching Me certain aspects in BDSM. I was quite curious and already lived a boring life. Until I met this Female. We had all sorts of fun (use your perverted imagination). I began attending local Dungeons at age 18, thanks to the Married Dominant couple for inviting Me to join them. This couple had met Me at a Fetish Night, in Chicago and realized that I was highly interested in becoming more involved in the scene. The couple had trained Me and a year later, I began Pro-Domination. I started working as a House-Domina, with other Ladies. Currently, I'm an Independent Domina and loving every second of it.
Punk Globe: To me it looks a bit painful so what makes people want to go through that?
Xena: Interesting question. What makes people do what they do? What makes people want (or crave) pain? Some individuals enjoy receiving a bloody whip or a heavy-duty wooden paddle to their bare ass because in their childhood, they were beaten with these objects. Or because they want to let go. And they want to be free. Even because they deserve the punishment for doing something bad in their lives, which is why most men turn to Mistresses to give them Pain and to turn them into Pain-Sluts. There are several answers to this question. I honestly HATE receiving pain and couldn't pass for a masochist. Why is that? Because I'm a Sadist and simply get off on inflicting pain.
Punk Globe: Some say what you do is obscene and degrading so what is your reply to these people?"
Xena: Stop Being Such Cunts, and Give it a Shot". Open Up. Be Experimental. Discover your Kinky and Naughty side. Get Freaky. Don't be scared of Perverts. Have fun in life (ya know, life is short).You know what I truly despise? When Individuals categorize us as being either 'Escorts' or 'Prostitutes'. And why is a Dominatrix different? Because a Dominatrix doesn't spread Her legs and get Fucked by the client, for the Money. I have nothing against Escorts or Hookers (some look damn good in Thigh-High Boots, though), don't get Me wrong.
Punk Globe: What sort of limits do you set yourself?
Xena: Prostitution, Exotic Dancing, Exchanging in Bodily Fluids or Nudity (on My part) is certainly off-limits. As far as activities, I do NOT engage in Needle Play, Play Piercing (I despise needles, but I could get tattooed anytime... It's wierd), Roman Showers (Vomiting on a slave) or Red Showers (Urinating on a slave, while the Female is on Her Period).
Punk Globe: Is there anything you haven't tried but would like to do?
Xena: I've did just about everything in the book, with My slaves. I've never crucified a slave, but thought about REALLY doing so.
Punk Globe: How long do the photo shoots tend to last?
Xena: Besides being a Domina, I'm also a Model. My Photo shoots can last, from an hour to an entire weekend. It can be quite exhausting, when I Model for an entire weekend (with either one Photographer or several). When I DO Model for an entire weekend, I keep Myself awake, by drinking lots of coffee. Of course, I need the extra shots of Espresso, to really keep Me on My feet. When Modeling throughout the weekend, I tend to get as many sets in, as humanly possible. The hard work definitely pays off in the future, for sure.
Punk Globe: Have you taken part in any movies and if so could you name a few for our readers to check out?
Xena: Does being an Extra in a Movie count? haha. Na, I've never been in a 'huge' film. I've been in Films, which are BDSM / Fetish Oriented. I'm currently in the process of putting out a DVD called, "Taking Charge". It's with Charger Pony and Myself (filmed in Minneapolis, Minnesota). Most of the Movie involves Pony Play and Human Torture. When the Movie is released, I'll mention it on My website. So, stay tuned!
Punk Globe: You have a cool website so what kind of hits do you get every month?
Xena: It all varies, from Month to Month. In the Month of November 2005, I received 40,000-45,000 hits.
Punk Globe: How do you feel about certain feminists who think you're letting down other women because of the occupation you have chosen?
Xena: Personally, I haven't received any complaints from Negative Feminists about My line of work. I know that other Dominants have, but not Myself. Other Women in the Chicago Land area are inspired and intrigued in what I do. I've trained some Women, because those Women were serious in getting into the business and serious in being a Powerful and a Domineering person.
Punk Globe: Outside your occupation what kind of things do you like to do?
Xena: Relaxing (or simply having fun) in My Rubber Catsuits, Wearing My Thigh-High Boots, Being Tightly Cinched in Corsets, Receiving Massages, Foreplay, Webcam Shows, Web-Designing, Browsing the Internet, Dancing, Singing, Listening to all Kinds of Music, Drinking Alcohol, Watching Movies, Exercising and Traveling.
Punk Globe: If you saw me in a shopping mall after running this interview would I be in line for a kiss?
Xena: Yes. A wet slobberish Kiss, though. ha ha!Looks like I'm going to have to start hanging around her local Mall:-)
Punk Globe: So sell yourselves to our readers - Why should they visit your site? Xena: My Members Area includes 5,000+ Images (going all the way back, from 2001). My Members Area ALSO includes Solo Images with just Myself, Girl / Girl Action Photos, Mistress / slave Photos, Guest Models, Webcam Photos, Party Photos at Different Conventions, Photos Taken During My Performances, Photos of Fan Art, and Candid Shots. Different kinds of images are featured in the Members Area. Goth, Bondage, Fashion, Fetish, Rubber, Lingerie, Pin-Up, Cheesecake, Portraits, Fine-Art and of course, Nudity. Note: In the near future, I plan on adding mini video clips to the Members area. You must be 18+ to Join. Sorry Children. More information on Joining My Members Area is listed on My website: http://www.mistressxena.com
Punk Globe: Any New Year messages for our readers?
Xena: Be safe. Drink ALOT, but don't you fucking drive. Cheers for 2006! (already, huh?) My how time flies.
Punk Globe: Anything you'd like to add?
Xena: If you would like to interact with Me, then join My Yahoo! Fan Club:http://groups.yahoo.com/group/eroticmistressxena OR by adding Me as a Friend on MySpace: http://www.myspace.com/Mistress_Xena .I constantly update My website with new galleries, photo sets, guest Models, etc. (Ladies: If you would like to trade content, then e-mail Me: mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com) Stay tuned to http://www.mistressxena.com
Thanks to Mistress Xena for being so honest and open. She gives some excellent replies to the questions asked so thanks you for that. I hope this interview opens peoples eyes and minds to the world of BDSM. Please do check out the sites that Mistress Xena has on line.
I bumped into Mistress Xena on the net - GothChix.Com had pointed her in my direction and when I checked out what she was about I fired some questions off to her about her life style. Happy to be interviewed here's what Mistress Xena had to say:
Punk Globe: First off can you introduce yourself to the world of Rock N Roll? Yes. You may call Me Xena, Mistress Xena, Goddess Xena (and trust Me, I'm NO Princess).
Xena: I was born and raised in Chicago, IL. And I'm still living in this fucking cold city. I'm in My 20s, 1/2 Irish and 1/2 Middle Eastern. Weird Combination, huh? Ahh, we're all a bunch of wierdos anyway. Let's see...... Words that best describe Me (What Am I?): Dominant, Sadist, Fetishist, Rubberist, EVIL, Wicked, Seductive, Erotic, Perverted, Kinky and Witty.
Punk Globe: How did you get into the world of BDSM? At what age did you get a feel for it?
Xena: I became experimental, starting at age 15. I was a Voyeur and an Exhibitionist (and still am). I thank the lovely female on My block (at the time), for teaching Me certain aspects in BDSM. I was quite curious and already lived a boring life. Until I met this Female. We had all sorts of fun (use your perverted imagination). I began attending local Dungeons at age 18, thanks to the Married Dominant couple for inviting Me to join them. This couple had met Me at a Fetish Night, in Chicago and realized that I was highly interested in becoming more involved in the scene. The couple had trained Me and a year later, I began Pro-Domination. I started working as a House-Domina, with other Ladies. Currently, I'm an Independent Domina and loving every second of it.
Punk Globe: To me it looks a bit painful so what makes people want to go through that?
Xena: Interesting question. What makes people do what they do? What makes people want (or crave) pain? Some individuals enjoy receiving a bloody whip or a heavy-duty wooden paddle to their bare ass because in their childhood, they were beaten with these objects. Or because they want to let go. And they want to be free. Even because they deserve the punishment for doing something bad in their lives, which is why most men turn to Mistresses to give them Pain and to turn them into Pain-Sluts. There are several answers to this question. I honestly HATE receiving pain and couldn't pass for a masochist. Why is that? Because I'm a Sadist and simply get off on inflicting pain.
Punk Globe: Some say what you do is obscene and degrading so what is your reply to these people?"
Xena: Stop Being Such Cunts, and Give it a Shot". Open Up. Be Experimental. Discover your Kinky and Naughty side. Get Freaky. Don't be scared of Perverts. Have fun in life (ya know, life is short).You know what I truly despise? When Individuals categorize us as being either 'Escorts' or 'Prostitutes'. And why is a Dominatrix different? Because a Dominatrix doesn't spread Her legs and get Fucked by the client, for the Money. I have nothing against Escorts or Hookers (some look damn good in Thigh-High Boots, though), don't get Me wrong.
Punk Globe: What sort of limits do you set yourself?
Xena: Prostitution, Exotic Dancing, Exchanging in Bodily Fluids or Nudity (on My part) is certainly off-limits. As far as activities, I do NOT engage in Needle Play, Play Piercing (I despise needles, but I could get tattooed anytime... It's wierd), Roman Showers (Vomiting on a slave) or Red Showers (Urinating on a slave, while the Female is on Her Period).
Punk Globe: Is there anything you haven't tried but would like to do?
Xena: I've did just about everything in the book, with My slaves. I've never crucified a slave, but thought about REALLY doing so.
Punk Globe: How long do the photo shoots tend to last?
Xena: Besides being a Domina, I'm also a Model. My Photo shoots can last, from an hour to an entire weekend. It can be quite exhausting, when I Model for an entire weekend (with either one Photographer or several). When I DO Model for an entire weekend, I keep Myself awake, by drinking lots of coffee. Of course, I need the extra shots of Espresso, to really keep Me on My feet. When Modeling throughout the weekend, I tend to get as many sets in, as humanly possible. The hard work definitely pays off in the future, for sure.
Punk Globe: Have you taken part in any movies and if so could you name a few for our readers to check out?
Xena: Does being an Extra in a Movie count? haha. Na, I've never been in a 'huge' film. I've been in Films, which are BDSM / Fetish Oriented. I'm currently in the process of putting out a DVD called, "Taking Charge". It's with Charger Pony and Myself (filmed in Minneapolis, Minnesota). Most of the Movie involves Pony Play and Human Torture. When the Movie is released, I'll mention it on My website. So, stay tuned!
Punk Globe: You have a cool website so what kind of hits do you get every month?
Xena: It all varies, from Month to Month. In the Month of November 2005, I received 40,000-45,000 hits.
Punk Globe: How do you feel about certain feminists who think you're letting down other women because of the occupation you have chosen?
Xena: Personally, I haven't received any complaints from Negative Feminists about My line of work. I know that other Dominants have, but not Myself. Other Women in the Chicago Land area are inspired and intrigued in what I do. I've trained some Women, because those Women were serious in getting into the business and serious in being a Powerful and a Domineering person.
Punk Globe: Outside your occupation what kind of things do you like to do?
Xena: Relaxing (or simply having fun) in My Rubber Catsuits, Wearing My Thigh-High Boots, Being Tightly Cinched in Corsets, Receiving Massages, Foreplay, Webcam Shows, Web-Designing, Browsing the Internet, Dancing, Singing, Listening to all Kinds of Music, Drinking Alcohol, Watching Movies, Exercising and Traveling.
Punk Globe: If you saw me in a shopping mall after running this interview would I be in line for a kiss?
Xena: Yes. A wet slobberish Kiss, though. ha ha!Looks like I'm going to have to start hanging around her local Mall:-)
Punk Globe: So sell yourselves to our readers - Why should they visit your site? Xena: My Members Area includes 5,000+ Images (going all the way back, from 2001). My Members Area ALSO includes Solo Images with just Myself, Girl / Girl Action Photos, Mistress / slave Photos, Guest Models, Webcam Photos, Party Photos at Different Conventions, Photos Taken During My Performances, Photos of Fan Art, and Candid Shots. Different kinds of images are featured in the Members Area. Goth, Bondage, Fashion, Fetish, Rubber, Lingerie, Pin-Up, Cheesecake, Portraits, Fine-Art and of course, Nudity. Note: In the near future, I plan on adding mini video clips to the Members area. You must be 18+ to Join. Sorry Children. More information on Joining My Members Area is listed on My website: http://www.mistressxena.com
Punk Globe: Any New Year messages for our readers?
Xena: Be safe. Drink ALOT, but don't you fucking drive. Cheers for 2006! (already, huh?) My how time flies.
Punk Globe: Anything you'd like to add?
Xena: If you would like to interact with Me, then join My Yahoo! Fan Club:http://groups.yahoo.com/group/eroticmistressxena OR by adding Me as a Friend on MySpace: http://www.myspace.com/Mistress_Xena .I constantly update My website with new galleries, photo sets, guest Models, etc. (Ladies: If you would like to trade content, then e-mail Me: mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com) Stay tuned to http://www.mistressxena.com
Thanks to Mistress Xena for being so honest and open. She gives some excellent replies to the questions asked so thanks you for that. I hope this interview opens peoples eyes and minds to the world of BDSM. Please do check out the sites that Mistress Xena has on line.
Friday, November 4, 2011
Class/Play Party @ The Studio (Chicago) - 11/11/11
Presenter & Topics For the month of November at The Studio:
Go Deeper: G Spots orgasms, Squirting and Fisting
Guest Presenter : Bianca James
Class: 8pm-9pm.
Play Party: 9pm-12am.
$10 admission.
Bring your own toys.
21+ to enter.
Parking: Free parking on the street, or $4 behind the Studio's space.
RSVP : mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com
Your RSVP's shall include your full name.
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Class:
Go Deeper: G Spots orgasms, Squirting and Fisting
Workshop description: Have you ever been curious about G-Spot
orgasms, squirting, fisting, and other activities that focus on going
deep inside the vagina? This class will cover anatomy (how to find the G Spot and the lesser know A Spot, aka deep spot), the mechanics of squirting and how to make it happen, the best toys for solo and partnered A Spot and G spot stimulation, and techniques you can use to pleasure your partner, including advanced fingering and full-on fisting. If you would like to serve as a demo bottom for this class (you must have a vagina) contact Bianca at girlaboutchitown@gmail.com
About the presenter: Bianca James is a sex educator, toy reviewer, and sex and dating blogger for the Huffington Post, Eden Café and
http://Romanscandal.com.
A self-proclaimed fisting slut and toy addict, she will be pursuing graduate level sexuality studies in 2012.
Go Deeper: G Spots orgasms, Squirting and Fisting
Guest Presenter : Bianca James
Class: 8pm-9pm.
Play Party: 9pm-12am.
$10 admission.
Bring your own toys.
21+ to enter.
Parking: Free parking on the street, or $4 behind the Studio's space.
RSVP : mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com
Your RSVP's shall include your full name.
==================
Class:
Go Deeper: G Spots orgasms, Squirting and Fisting
Workshop description: Have you ever been curious about G-Spot
orgasms, squirting, fisting, and other activities that focus on going
deep inside the vagina? This class will cover anatomy (how to find the G Spot and the lesser know A Spot, aka deep spot), the mechanics of squirting and how to make it happen, the best toys for solo and partnered A Spot and G spot stimulation, and techniques you can use to pleasure your partner, including advanced fingering and full-on fisting. If you would like to serve as a demo bottom for this class (you must have a vagina) contact Bianca at girlaboutchitown@gmail.com
About the presenter: Bianca James is a sex educator, toy reviewer, and sex and dating blogger for the Huffington Post, Eden Café and
http://Romanscandal.com.
A self-proclaimed fisting slut and toy addict, she will be pursuing graduate level sexuality studies in 2012.
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Kilter Magazine interview - Early 2010
KILTER MAG ARTICLE – FEB 2010
1. What are some risks commonly associated with D/s ?
-Physically or mentally abusive Dom/mes. For example: You are in a scene and the scene is too much to handle. He/She is whipping you and not respecting your limits. You have no choice, but to call out your code-word. The person does not stop inflicting pain. Then that is a key sign that something is wrong with the person. You will know in an instant if the person is physically abusive.
-Emotionally unstable or manipulative subs or dom/mes seeking more from the relationship than the other, as a human being, can give. The extra factor is that D/s relationships are already predicated upon a delicate shift of power, and so rely more than usual on participants being able to handle that well. I have an example. A Man from the East Coast wanted to become my live-in slave, and I barely knew this person. Personally, I have never let a slave live with Me. My home is separate than the Dungeon life. I could not give him what he had ‘desired’. I have suggested to him that he should find a Domme in his area.
-"Top's disease," or the tendency for some Dom/mes to grow into a sense of infallibility or omniscience. I call this, “Dominitis”, or “Domme-Disease”. They take the lifestyle too seriously. They want EVERYONE to bow down & worship them.
-Self-hating slaves. At the base of the self-hate patterns are a feeling of deep unworthiness. So the pattern must find ways to both hide the real feelings, and also play them out in reality in some way. If reality doesn't fit what self-hate believes is true, the pattern will cause the slaves to do something that will sabotage themselves. Whether it's self-sabotage or getting others to participate in our downfall, the self-hate patterns can be quite creative in finding ways to make reality fit the "I am bad" picture.
-Unstable dom/mes or subs who can cause financial or personal hardship. This can be through the act or threat of calling public attention to the other's private life and their relationship.
2. What are some myths about D/s?
It aggravates me when some people have these myths about the D/s lifestyle. Here they are:
-Dominants are cruel and cold hearted people. This is not true. Sure, Dominants inflict pain. But Dominants do so, because the slave(s) crave the feel of a whip, or the feel of a kick to the balls. We practice the concept of safe, sane & consensual play amongst our scenes.
- submissives are attempting to re-live childhood abuse. There are Men or Women who have been abused as children, but I do not think that is the reason why they enjoy receiving pain to this day. There is no evidence that people into D/s or BDSM have any greater history of childhood abuse than the general populace, but as people who were abused as children are more likely to seek professional help, these are the ones that professionals see and write about.
-submissives are naturally "doormats.” Again, this is not a true statement. Some of the slaves I’ve ever encountered are not doormats. They are powerful human beings, and they happen to have a kink for becoming painsluts/submissive towards a Dominatrix.
3. Is BDSM a Mental Illness?
I’ve done research on this specific question, because I’ve personally encountered an individual asking me if I had a mental illness because I practice BDSM. And the person had asked “Were you abused as a child, which is why you are currently a Dominatrix?” It was absolutely rude & disrespectful for the person to outright say that in his email to me. The answers are no & no. Most people who are interested in BDSM do not have a mental disorder. Research has also found that those who practice BDSM do not have a higher incidence of psychological issues when compared to other populations. It does not mean that you have a mental illness to be involved in BDSM activities. This is a common misconception of BDSM. It is healthy to engage in some BDSM activities, and it is much more common than most people think. It’s a great work out, when I’m handling floggers. My muscles are working, and sometimes I’m sweating when I swing the whip. Another work-out would have to be wrestling with a helpless slave. Hmm. Maybe I should start a ‘BDSM-Aerobics” class. Hah. Ok. Back on the serious note. It is considered to be a dark fetish, because of the stereotypes and stigmas associated with it historically. It can be a very fulfilling and healthy activity if practiced consensually.
4. What are some bizarre fetishes, in your opinion?
If one would want to engage in these specific fetishes with a Professional Dominatrix(who would offer the fetishes) or with your partner (who would be open minded to experience the fetishes), then do some research.
Emetophilia (The act of throwing up, especially on a sexual partner, is the biggest of turn-ons for emetophiles. Also called a Roman shower, after the induced vomiting that was supposed to be a staple of those debauched Roman feasts).
Eproctophilia (Fart fetish).
Urophilia (These fetishists love to pee in public, pee on somebody, or get peed on. Also known as “watersports” and “golden showers”).
Klismaphilia (for those who enjoy getting and administering enemas).
Necrophilia (Having a sexual attraction to corpses).
Coprophilia (This one’s better known as scat. Not the rapid-fire singing style, but the act of, well, deriving sexual gratification from feces).
5. Written to me from an anonymous user on a popular social website: “I have been invited to a BDSM party. I don’t know if I should go. What do they do at the parties? Would I be safe? Would it be a traumatic experience for myself?”
If someone would like to meet others in this lifestyle, I usually encourage the person to attend local BDSM events or munches. It gives them a good opportunity to speak with a person, face to face. If you are comfortable with bringing a friend or your partner, feel free and do so. If the event or group has a website, read the website. If there are rules, follow the rules. Some rules are, “Respect the dungeon space, and others at the party”, or “Bring your own toys, if you choose to play”. Some websites will even include a dress code. There are many things which can take place at a BDSM event. People will rather socialize, than play. Or other individuals will play amongst themselves. You don’t need to stand in the corner by yourself and observe all of the action. Open up, relax, and get to know the people. It will not be a traumatic experience. The environment is usually clean & safe. At one of our dungeon parties recently (bondagenightchicago.com), we had an incident where the person entered the dungeon for 5 minutes. We quickly made his decision and left. He admitted that the party was not for him. People are not forced to stay at the party. The dungeon might have been very intimidating for him. There can be other reasons why he chose to leave.
More on Kilter: http://www.kiltermagazine.org/
1. What are some risks commonly associated with D/s ?
-Physically or mentally abusive Dom/mes. For example: You are in a scene and the scene is too much to handle. He/She is whipping you and not respecting your limits. You have no choice, but to call out your code-word. The person does not stop inflicting pain. Then that is a key sign that something is wrong with the person. You will know in an instant if the person is physically abusive.
-Emotionally unstable or manipulative subs or dom/mes seeking more from the relationship than the other, as a human being, can give. The extra factor is that D/s relationships are already predicated upon a delicate shift of power, and so rely more than usual on participants being able to handle that well. I have an example. A Man from the East Coast wanted to become my live-in slave, and I barely knew this person. Personally, I have never let a slave live with Me. My home is separate than the Dungeon life. I could not give him what he had ‘desired’. I have suggested to him that he should find a Domme in his area.
-"Top's disease," or the tendency for some Dom/mes to grow into a sense of infallibility or omniscience. I call this, “Dominitis”, or “Domme-Disease”. They take the lifestyle too seriously. They want EVERYONE to bow down & worship them.
-Self-hating slaves. At the base of the self-hate patterns are a feeling of deep unworthiness. So the pattern must find ways to both hide the real feelings, and also play them out in reality in some way. If reality doesn't fit what self-hate believes is true, the pattern will cause the slaves to do something that will sabotage themselves. Whether it's self-sabotage or getting others to participate in our downfall, the self-hate patterns can be quite creative in finding ways to make reality fit the "I am bad" picture.
-Unstable dom/mes or subs who can cause financial or personal hardship. This can be through the act or threat of calling public attention to the other's private life and their relationship.
2. What are some myths about D/s?
It aggravates me when some people have these myths about the D/s lifestyle. Here they are:
-Dominants are cruel and cold hearted people. This is not true. Sure, Dominants inflict pain. But Dominants do so, because the slave(s) crave the feel of a whip, or the feel of a kick to the balls. We practice the concept of safe, sane & consensual play amongst our scenes.
- submissives are attempting to re-live childhood abuse. There are Men or Women who have been abused as children, but I do not think that is the reason why they enjoy receiving pain to this day. There is no evidence that people into D/s or BDSM have any greater history of childhood abuse than the general populace, but as people who were abused as children are more likely to seek professional help, these are the ones that professionals see and write about.
-submissives are naturally "doormats.” Again, this is not a true statement. Some of the slaves I’ve ever encountered are not doormats. They are powerful human beings, and they happen to have a kink for becoming painsluts/submissive towards a Dominatrix.
3. Is BDSM a Mental Illness?
I’ve done research on this specific question, because I’ve personally encountered an individual asking me if I had a mental illness because I practice BDSM. And the person had asked “Were you abused as a child, which is why you are currently a Dominatrix?” It was absolutely rude & disrespectful for the person to outright say that in his email to me. The answers are no & no. Most people who are interested in BDSM do not have a mental disorder. Research has also found that those who practice BDSM do not have a higher incidence of psychological issues when compared to other populations. It does not mean that you have a mental illness to be involved in BDSM activities. This is a common misconception of BDSM. It is healthy to engage in some BDSM activities, and it is much more common than most people think. It’s a great work out, when I’m handling floggers. My muscles are working, and sometimes I’m sweating when I swing the whip. Another work-out would have to be wrestling with a helpless slave. Hmm. Maybe I should start a ‘BDSM-Aerobics” class. Hah. Ok. Back on the serious note. It is considered to be a dark fetish, because of the stereotypes and stigmas associated with it historically. It can be a very fulfilling and healthy activity if practiced consensually.
4. What are some bizarre fetishes, in your opinion?
If one would want to engage in these specific fetishes with a Professional Dominatrix(who would offer the fetishes) or with your partner (who would be open minded to experience the fetishes), then do some research.
Emetophilia (The act of throwing up, especially on a sexual partner, is the biggest of turn-ons for emetophiles. Also called a Roman shower, after the induced vomiting that was supposed to be a staple of those debauched Roman feasts).
Eproctophilia (Fart fetish).
Urophilia (These fetishists love to pee in public, pee on somebody, or get peed on. Also known as “watersports” and “golden showers”).
Klismaphilia (for those who enjoy getting and administering enemas).
Necrophilia (Having a sexual attraction to corpses).
Coprophilia (This one’s better known as scat. Not the rapid-fire singing style, but the act of, well, deriving sexual gratification from feces).
5. Written to me from an anonymous user on a popular social website: “I have been invited to a BDSM party. I don’t know if I should go. What do they do at the parties? Would I be safe? Would it be a traumatic experience for myself?”
If someone would like to meet others in this lifestyle, I usually encourage the person to attend local BDSM events or munches. It gives them a good opportunity to speak with a person, face to face. If you are comfortable with bringing a friend or your partner, feel free and do so. If the event or group has a website, read the website. If there are rules, follow the rules. Some rules are, “Respect the dungeon space, and others at the party”, or “Bring your own toys, if you choose to play”. Some websites will even include a dress code. There are many things which can take place at a BDSM event. People will rather socialize, than play. Or other individuals will play amongst themselves. You don’t need to stand in the corner by yourself and observe all of the action. Open up, relax, and get to know the people. It will not be a traumatic experience. The environment is usually clean & safe. At one of our dungeon parties recently (bondagenightchicago.com), we had an incident where the person entered the dungeon for 5 minutes. We quickly made his decision and left. He admitted that the party was not for him. People are not forced to stay at the party. The dungeon might have been very intimidating for him. There can be other reasons why he chose to leave.
More on Kilter: http://www.kiltermagazine.org/
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Holiday Deals
Tis' the season for discounts! I love discounts. And so do you! If you don't, then you're just strange!
Last year, I've had session deals for My clients. Everyone was happy about it.
I know, that the economy is still dealing with tough times (when oh WHEN will this recession end??). So, I completely understand that having session deals will help out a little. Since many retailers have discounts, so can I.
So.. Here are My deals::
2hr session - $50 off
3hr session - $100 off
4hr session - $150 off
5hr session - $200 off
These deals are for the months of November & December.
Regarding overnight sessions, I tend to give a very reasonable rate (I have been, for years).
And for years, I've been discreet and I do not list My rates online.
So boys, you know what you have to do.... Call or E-Mail Me, to schedule an appointment.
Ph: (773)931-3086
Email: mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com
Last year, I've had session deals for My clients. Everyone was happy about it.
I know, that the economy is still dealing with tough times (when oh WHEN will this recession end??). So, I completely understand that having session deals will help out a little. Since many retailers have discounts, so can I.
So.. Here are My deals::
2hr session - $50 off
3hr session - $100 off
4hr session - $150 off
5hr session - $200 off
These deals are for the months of November & December.
Regarding overnight sessions, I tend to give a very reasonable rate (I have been, for years).
And for years, I've been discreet and I do not list My rates online.
So boys, you know what you have to do.... Call or E-Mail Me, to schedule an appointment.
Ph: (773)931-3086
Email: mistressxena_chicago@yahoo.com
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