Quote of the Day
"HAPPY HUMP-DAY, FUCKERS !"
Q & A's of the Day
Should I Tell My Partner I Have a Fetish?
Yes and no. Blurting out "I get off on hairy women" on a first date with someone you barely know probably isn't a good idea. However, if you're beginning what might be a long-term relationship and your fetish plays an important role in your sexual life, you should consider coming clean.
"Sexual compatibility is key to every joyous union," says Gloria Brame, author of the new book Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex (Simon and Schuster, 2000). "You should try to find out, right up front, if you share the same sexual values. Do this before either of you make commitments and definitely before you fall in love," she adds.
What If He or She Freaks Out When I Reveal My Fetish?
There are several scenarios here. What if your partner gets hysterical or overreacts when you mention your thing for rubber outfits? "That's a clue that he or she may have some sexual hang-ups," says Brame. In this case, you'll want to ditch either the rubber or your lover.
What if your partner simply doesn't share your passion for platform shoes, but isn't repulsed by it, either? "You can't force the issue," says Brame. "You have to figure out how important that fetish is in your life."
Can a Fetish Be Unhealthy?
Even masturbation can be unsafe or unhealthy. There's nothing wrong with workin' the gherkin, but a guy who sticks his penis into a vacuum cleaner is asking for trouble. The same is true of fetishes: it's not what you do, but how you do it that makes it unsafe. If your fetish becomes more important than your partner (you could care less who your partner is, as long as he or she is fulfilling the fetish), you may have a problem.
"The same safe, sane, and consensual credo of the organized S&M community applies to fetishists. The activity should be physically and emotionally safe, you shouldn't be taking any crazy risks, and both partners must be of consenting age, mentally capable of giving consent and know what they're consenting to."
Music of the Day
Yellow Magic Orchestra - Nice Age (live)
The Human League - Being Boiled (1982)
Movie Clips of the Day
All about Eve
Blue Velvet - Ben, One Suave Fucker
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Stuff of the Day - Tuesday (Jan 6)
Quote of the Day
"Happy Tied-Up Tuesday !!"
Complaint of the Day
When it snows in Chicago, you do NOT have to drive 10 mph.
What the fuck !
Q&A of the Day
Question ...
"My wife and I are totally into kinky sex. What I’m looking for is advice for a kinkier way to have sex. To give a little bit of our sex history: We have sex in many different position. I love having vaginal and anal sex with her. I love using sex toys on her in a whole lot of ways. She really gets into it. In the past, we took pictures of each other while having sex. Now, we are talk about making a video. Besides having sex with her I love with all my heart. During sex, we talk a lot of dirty sex talk. One thing she talked about was having two of me at the same time. Ever since she said that, I always get hot thinking about it. I want to watch her have sex with a other guy, and then I join in on the fun. How would you go about something like this?"
Answer..
"These days, the easiest way to find a man to fuck your wife is online through adult networking sites and craigslist. No, the easiest way to find a man to fuck your wife is to go into any bar and ask someone. No, really, the easiest way to find a man to fuck your wife is to go to a swing club, not the kind that is couples only, but the kind that allows single men to come in and gawk. Chat up a few decent-looking gawkers. Ask normal ice-breaker questions and find one who can interact like a regular human being. He doesn’t have to be perfect, but you should both agree he is cute enough and friendly. Excuse yourselves to get drinks and confirm with your wife that he’s a good candidate. Ask him if he’d like to join you in one of those private little bedrooms. Express your hopes in straightforward positive sentences, so that there’s no uncertainty or doubt on anyone’s part. Say something like: “I’ve love to see you fuck my wife” with a big smile on your face. Don’t forget your backup Viagra."
Movie Clips of the Day
Music clips of the Day
Tootsie
Best Of To Wong Foo
2-Live Crew, "Face down ass up"
Kurtis Blow - If I Ruled The World
"Happy Tied-Up Tuesday !!"
Complaint of the Day
When it snows in Chicago, you do NOT have to drive 10 mph.
What the fuck !
Q&A of the Day
Question ...
"My wife and I are totally into kinky sex. What I’m looking for is advice for a kinkier way to have sex. To give a little bit of our sex history: We have sex in many different position. I love having vaginal and anal sex with her. I love using sex toys on her in a whole lot of ways. She really gets into it. In the past, we took pictures of each other while having sex. Now, we are talk about making a video. Besides having sex with her I love with all my heart. During sex, we talk a lot of dirty sex talk. One thing she talked about was having two of me at the same time. Ever since she said that, I always get hot thinking about it. I want to watch her have sex with a other guy, and then I join in on the fun. How would you go about something like this?"
Answer..
"These days, the easiest way to find a man to fuck your wife is online through adult networking sites and craigslist. No, the easiest way to find a man to fuck your wife is to go into any bar and ask someone. No, really, the easiest way to find a man to fuck your wife is to go to a swing club, not the kind that is couples only, but the kind that allows single men to come in and gawk. Chat up a few decent-looking gawkers. Ask normal ice-breaker questions and find one who can interact like a regular human being. He doesn’t have to be perfect, but you should both agree he is cute enough and friendly. Excuse yourselves to get drinks and confirm with your wife that he’s a good candidate. Ask him if he’d like to join you in one of those private little bedrooms. Express your hopes in straightforward positive sentences, so that there’s no uncertainty or doubt on anyone’s part. Say something like: “I’ve love to see you fuck my wife” with a big smile on your face. Don’t forget your backup Viagra."
Movie Clips of the Day
Music clips of the Day
Tootsie
Best Of To Wong Foo
2-Live Crew, "Face down ass up"
Kurtis Blow - If I Ruled The World
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